Last night somebody made a valiant effort to break into the church. They must have been here for a while because three windows were broken. The one over Matthew's desk (see the picture) took the greatest hit, and I think this is where they actually tried to get into the building. We found some finger prints but that is about all the evidence. The police arrived within minutes after Amanda (Calvary's Ministry Assistant [aka "Church Secretary"]) called. They were fantastic and we even got a motorcycle cop (made my day). No, I didn't stage this for all the drama, but there is a point here...
Last night somebody made a valiant effort to break into the church. They must have been here for a while because three windows were broken. The one over Matthew's desk (see the picture) took the greatest hit, and I think this is where they actually tried to get into the building. We found some finger prints but that is about all the evidence. The police arrived within minutes after Amanda (Calvary's Ministry Assistant [aka "Church Secretary"]) called. They were fantastic and we even got a motorcycle cop (made my day). No, I didn't stage this for all the drama, but there is a point here...Stop what you’re doing! I want everyone who reads this to take some time to think about how God has blessed you lately. I’ll wait while you think…Now I want us all to write down seven blessings that came to your mind. I’ll wait while you do that…
Now that we’ve done this, let’s take one of these blessings each day this week and get caught up in praising the Lord for blessing us so richly.
The practice of praising God is a topic we talk about but seldom practice. Yes, we know that God enjoys listening to His family thank Him for all He has done and given, but do we get so enthusiastically involved in doing praise that others will look at us like we’ve lost control? Ponder on these verses:
Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change. (James 1:17 ESV)
…The LORD is good; his steadfast love endures forever, and his faithfulness to all generations. (Psalm 100:5)
I don’t believe it is enough just to know that God is good we must express our thankfulness to Him for being good to us. We must not take God for granted; we should passionately shout His goodness so others will hear that God does make a difference in our lives.
If you are reading this then you are one of the blessings I am praising God for this week. I love being a part of your life and am so thankful to God for you!
Grace & Peace, Scott

I am no expert in the arena of parenting. The problem with my fatherhood is three-fold:
1. The jury is still out on me.
2. At times I have failed as a father.
3. I am still learning how to be a good father.
But I offer some reflections that have benefited me and hope they will help others.
Being a father is tough. Too often men enter into this sacred role flippantly and with little or no preparation and that is sad. Of the many demands on our lives guys, being a dad ranks as one of the most difficult and important. Why do we spend so much time on our vocations or planning for our retirement, when raising our kids is so important? I believe we can lose a job and recover, but if we lose our kids…then what?
One of my cherished possessions in my office is a piece of cross-stitch I’ve had since 1987. It reads, Any man can be a father but it takes someone special to be a daddy! I would only add that it takes a great deal of blood, sweat, and tears as well.
Kids grow up too quickly. This is not just a worn-out phrase…it is shockingly true. Some days I long to hold my kids just one more time on my lap; I want them to wrestle with me and jump all over me again. The sad truth is that this will never happen and I have to live with that. Kids grow up, period.
Two songs that I listen to over and over are Cats in the Cradle & Watching Scotty Grow. Cats is a sad song about a dad who is too busy to spend time with his growing son. The son wants to be just like him. In the end the dad wants to spend time with his son, but his son is now too busy for his dad—“He’d grown up just like me.” Watching (a song my Mom used to sing to me) is a song about a dad spending time with his son instead of spending time chasing dreams…he just wanted to watch his boy grow up. Two good songs…two lessons learned.
There are no guarantees in raising kids. I partially agree with this, but it is no excuse for us dads to be physically present but emotionally and spiritually checked out! The principle of scripture still holds true, Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it (Proverbs 22:6 ESV). Men, we must be doing the training and not using the “no guarantees” excuse to get us out of our responsibility. Don’t just show up; do something to train.
I am scared…I am scared out of my skin to have my kids walk away from God and His love for them. The most security kids can have is in an eternal relationship with God, and I want to do everything I can to make sure they have that security.
Solomon wrote, The father of the righteous will greatly rejoice; he who fathers a wise son will be glad in him. (Proverbs 23:24 ESV)
Grace & Peace, Scott

